{"id":4550,"date":"2020-11-11T17:00:14","date_gmt":"2020-11-11T17:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bloomsoup.com\/?p=4550"},"modified":"2021-09-19T15:19:20","modified_gmt":"2021-09-19T15:19:20","slug":"stop-thinking-and-take-action","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloomsoup.com\/stop-thinking-and-take-action\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Thinking and Take Action!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
I lie in bed, barely conscious, on that blissful edge of slumber, an interstitial zone where time slows and stillness reigns. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It would be easy to drift back into sleep, carried by dreams back into oblivion. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But I know I need to break the reverie and get up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Thoughts begin to arise, pleading to remain in the warm embrace of bed where it’s comfortable<\/a> and safe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Then the deception starts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Complex justifications I tell myself to delay the discomfort of waking up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Given air, these thoughts spread like wildfire, creating perfectly plausible reasons why I deserve an extra hour of rest. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, I force myself to stop thinking and take action, waking up to face the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is just a mini example of how our we’re often our own worst enemies, self-sabotaging constructive action. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Despite best-laid plans and admirable intentions, in the moment of truth, our resolve collapses as we buy into distracting, diverting and ultimately, undermining thoughts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It happens on repeat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Not only every morning when waking up to start these articles before work, but for all short-term pain, long-term gain activities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The thoughts become more pernicious in two common cases:<\/p>\n\n\n\n We’ve all been there, having consciously decided to implement a new habit and finding that at the appointed hour, we can’t follow through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Even though we know that actioning these items is beneficial, we just can’t get going. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So why the hell can’t we stop thinking and take action<\/a>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Thoughts are often just a form of delay. <\/p>\n\n\n\n We tell ourselves they’re a necessary part of the process even when the decision’s already been made. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So why continue with these unhelpful patterns? Two reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Evolving, our survival was predicated on fearing new and dangerous activities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A useful mental heuristic in prehistoric days perhaps, but not when all we want is a quick jog. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Although most of the habits we desire are completely safe, our neurological development hasn’t kept pace with societal change. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Therefore, even benign activities create fear<\/a>, overthinking and inaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Humans hate discomfort. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Again, it’s an inbuilt survival mechanism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n In times of uncertain resources, expending the least amount of energy for the maximum reward was prudent, mainly regarding meeting our basic needs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Most of us have warm homes and fridges which are overflowing with food. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So the lizard brain intervenes, questioning why we want to willingly endure short-term discomfort when shelter and energy are abundant, even if the long term rewards are apparent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So how can we act in spite of our evolutionary conditioning? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Here are some suggestions which have helped me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Changing embedded behaviours or persisting with new habits is difficult without a strong reason to do so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you don’t really want to make a change, your resolve will invariably falter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Write down your reasons for taking action and decide whether they’re strong enough to endure the expected discomfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Even if our desire isn’t strong enough, we can reframe our reasons for acting to make them more appealing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n In moments of overthinking and indecision<\/a>, rather than obsessing over the task, I imagine the behaviour is intrinsically tied to my identity, making it a matter of personal honour to stay true to my word. <\/p>\n\n\n\nWhat’s stopping me from starting?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Reasons for procrastination<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Fear<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Discomfort<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Stop thinking and take action<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Amplify your desire<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Reframe<\/h3>\n\n\n\n