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“What’s your running pace per mile?”, asked my friend. I looked blank. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
“How far do you normally run?” I shrugged my shoulders. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Are you even training for anything?!” <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’d recently started exercising again and my mate wanted to know about specific running results. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Much to his chagrin, I didn’t have any to show. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But unbeknown to him, I was using a process over outcome attitude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I was younger, I played lots of sport, including everything from badminton and cricket to football and tennis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I loved it all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
My parents often spent their evenings and weekends ferrying me from one training to another, not to mention long summers playing one tennis tournament after another. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Then I went to university and started drinking. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Slowly the sport fell away, replaced by late nights and morning hangovers. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not exactly conducive to running around a tennis court. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
After University I spent significant time travelling and working abroad, which didn’t lend itself to regular exercise. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Soon, however, I knew I was missing something important in life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I felt unhealthy, overweight and psychologically blocked. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I regularly experienced episodes of anxiety and overwhelm, for which I turned to meditation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, I felt I also needed a physical release; to return to a more basic, primal and overall, playful mode of being. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It wasn’t because I wanted to sculpt a beach body or collect social media likes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
In fact, external results didn’t factor in at all\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why do you do what you do? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If it’s like most people, it’s because you desire a particular result. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What start as genuine childhood passions soon become outcome-orientated as society emphasises the importance of external rewards. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
This sets us up for constant disappointment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Instead of focusing on an activity for its own sake, from a place of joy, we’re obsessed with outside validation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
When things don’t go our way, we become despondent and quit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
After being sold the myth of overnight success, we’re unwilling to put in the work and patience to improve our efforts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you really want to make progress, I believe it’s better to ignore these external results and adopt a process over outcome orientation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are two vital components for this to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We’ve just said that society tries to motivate us through extrinsic rewards, making us act for the wrong reasons. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
To focus on the process we must replace these benefits with more powerful incentives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Adults, like children, should return to a more playful state, engaging in activities for pure enjoyment and inner satisfaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
There’s immense pleasure to be derived from improving your abilities, even in the absence of external plaudits or praise. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For me, restarting running was never about physical appearance, but rather a deeper sense of fulfilment and lightness of being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I restarted exercise, I knew it would take time to regain fitness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
While most people run out (pun intended) and buy a smartwatch and the latest gear, I didn’t do any of that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
My only goal was to run every day. It didn’t matter how far or long. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
In fact, I didn’t want to know, deliberately ignoring the data. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As soon as I saw these results, I knew I’d become obsessed with the metrics, and that Goodhart’s Law<\/a> would prevail. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Instead of acting for intrinsic reasons, my behaviour would be results-driven; a man-made abstraction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Shielding yourself in this way is especially important after starting something new, when you’ll invariably be in comparison mode, self-conscious of your performance and highly sensitive to negative feedback.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don’t get me wrong, collecting data can aid performance<\/a>, especially when approached from an experimental or curiosity angle. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But it’s a delicate balance and I feel it’s often prudent to ignore the results and focus on the feeling instead. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Just by using the two methods above, internalising a process over outcome mentality, you can go far. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It wasn’t until I’d been exercising consistently for over a year that I finally invested in a running watch. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And even now, I remain careful with the data I consume to ensure I don’t become excessively performance-driven. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I mean, does it really matter that you aren’t the best as long as you love the activity? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Surely we should be optimising for enjoyment above all?<\/p>\n\n\n\n At least that’s how I view my running.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A couple of years after those initial questions, I can’t imagine quitting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I’ve done enough repetitions that, regardless of my running ability, it’s an identity-driven habit<\/a> which pays for itself many times over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Everyone wants to set outcome orientated objectives\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Instead, ignore these proxies for happiness and go smaller. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Focus on what you can do actually do today to create immediate enjoyment.<\/p>\n\n\n\nEnjoyment over ability<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Invest in systems, not results<\/h2>\n\n\n\n