{"id":3772,"date":"2020-04-20T06:37:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T06:37:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bloomsoup.com\/?page_id=3772"},"modified":"2021-09-19T15:51:22","modified_gmt":"2021-09-19T15:51:22","slug":"the-one-thing-gary-keller-jay-papasan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloomsoup.com\/the-one-thing-gary-keller-jay-papasan\/","title":{"rendered":"The One Thing Summary (Gary Keller & Jay Papasan)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Want extraordinary results in every area of your life? “What\u2019s the one thing I can do such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a fundamental question to ask ourselves. Decide the most important goal in your life long term… Equality is an ideal, but not applicable to our daily to-do’s. Multitasking is ineffective and inefficient. \u201cYou can do two things at once, but you can\u2019t focus effectively on two things at once.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n This might shatter your traditional concepts of success. \u201cYou can become successful with less discipline than you think, for one simple reason: success is about doing the right thing, not about doing everything right.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n If we’re struggling with our discipline we can’t rely on willpower. Willpower is drained in many ways, such as:<\/p>\n\n\n\n To use it effectively, it’s best to do our most important work early in the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Balance isn’t bad, but we should instead seek meaning and purpose. \u201cWork is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. The other four balls– family, health, friends, integrity– are made of glass. If you drop one of these, it will be irrevocably scuffed, nicked, perhaps even shattered.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n To live a great life, we must be big thinkers. So, how do we find our one thing? By consistently asking the following question:<\/p>\n\n\n\n “What\u2019s the one thing I can do such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n When we consistently ask ourselves the focusing question, we leverage our actions for the biggest result. To improve our effectiveness, we can make our question more specific by:<\/p>\n\n\n\n For my [career\/relationships\/health], what\u2019s the one thing I can do [today\/this week\/this quarter] such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n The main challenge of asking a great question is producing an equally great answer. There are three potential categories:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Want to be great? Produce great answers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Achieving the one thing isn’t without hardship. They are symbiotic and determine the effectiveness of our actions. “The five year view: Based on my \u2018someday\u2019 goal, what\u2019s the ONE Thing I can do in the next five years to be on track to achieve it?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n There are two main pitfalls with setting priorities:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Three ways to overcome these pitfalls:<\/p>\n\n\n\n The most successful people are the most productive people. Why? Because productive action is transformational. Time off – schedule your time off, rather than allowing it to fall randomly between work Eliminate all distractions until you’ve done your one thing each day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBe a maker in the morning and a manager in the afternoon.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Extraordinary results require three commitments:<\/p>\n\n\n\n A life might be measured in many ways, but living without regret is essential. I absolutely love the lessons in The One Thing, which completely resonate with my worldview and how I try to live life.
More productivity<\/a>, time<\/a>, success and satisfaction?
The One Thing summary, based on the bestselling book by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan<\/a> is a good place to start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Many of us lead lives of distractions and disarray, making it impossible to achieve our goals.
Gary Keller, founder of one of the world’s most successful real estate companies, argues that successful people go small.
Extraordinary focus on the one thing we must do each day drives extraordinary success.
The whole book is formed around this guiding principle.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe domino effect<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Then you can set up the dominoes needed to achieve it.
Dominoes can start small but a single domino can bring down another domino that\u2019s 50% bigger.
Focussing on the next domino is essential. Success is built one domino at a time, sequentially, not simultaneously.<\/p>\n\n\n\nSuccess myths<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Everything is created equal<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Some things on our list are more essential than others and deliver bigger and better results.
We should focus on these. Instead of a to-do list, reframe it as a success list.
Using the Pareto Principle<\/a> is helpful, a law of nature which states that 20% of inputs deliver 80% of outputs.
What are the 20% of items on our list that will deliver 80% of the results?<\/p>\n\n\n\nAchieving more with multitasking<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Task switching is attention-draining and energy-consuming.
Dividing our resources between multiple tasks means we don’t make sufficient progress in any one thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\nAll we need is discipline<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Keller argues that discipline is a verb, not a noun. It’s something we do, not something we have.
Discipline is a habit<\/a>, where correct behaviours become almost automatic.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWe can rely on our willpower<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
It’s a finite resource.
When it’s gone, we revert to default, easy behaviours, such as eating crappy food.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWork-life balance is essential<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Note that perfect balance does not support success, which is created in the extremes.
Investing in extraordinary success means we might have to make sacrifices in other areas of life, at least temporarily.
Focussing on one thing allows us to deprioritise distractions and achieve mastery while ensuring that we’re still able to counterbalance other areas of life,<\/p>\n\n\n\nBig is bad<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
We might avoid this in favour of being realistic, but in reality, thinking small is the dream killer.
Acting boldly will allow us to make great leaps, learning from mistakes along the way.
So avoid incremental thinking, adopt the growth mindset and either go big or go home.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe focusing question<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Each action becomes a progression of doing one right thing after another until our aim becomes inevitable.<\/p>\n\n\n\nIncrease specificity<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Finding purpose<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
If we lack overall direction, it’s easy to become subject to the hedonic treadmill of success.
We quickly become disillusioned with our latest achievement and seek the next goal to provide happiness.
Meaning and engagement are the most important factors for happiness, which are provided by purpose.
Life purpose<\/a> is our why and allows us to persist in the face of inevitable difficulty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Focusing on purpose and priority together informs our plan<\/a> for different timeframes:<\/p>\n\n\n\nLive for productivity<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
It allows us to get the most out of what we do.
If disproportionate results are derived from one activity, we must allocate more resources for that activity.
How? By planning our time ahead of time:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The one thing – block 4 hours, typically in the morning and avoid all distractions
Planning time – engage in systematic and frequent reviews to ensure that you’re progressing towards your goal<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe three commitments<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The four productivity thieves<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The Productive Person\u2019s Daily Energy Plan<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
No regrets<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
At any moment, there can be only the one thing.
When it aligns with our purpose and priorities, everything falls into place. It all makes sense.
And we become unstoppable.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe One Thing summary and review<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
I’m an advocate of simple living<\/a> and lifestyle design<\/a>, cutting the extraneous and focusing on what’s important.
When we take responsibility<\/a> for our existence through discipline, purpose and priority, we create the conditions necessary for a happy and successful life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n